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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

A Must Read: USED VS LOVED

USED VS LOVED

"Heat of the Moment" is a phrase often used. Have you really understood its true meaning?
Sometimes what we do in one Moment can change our lives forever - especially moments of acute Anger.

I believe we should read this and really think about it as well.

While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked up stone and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times;not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.  When the child saw his father..... with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'  The man was too hurt and speechless.

He went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions....sitting in front of  that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written 'I LOVE YOU DAD'.

The next day that man went to his son and took him in his arms and wept and wept....
But that act could never be undone...and that moment could never be replaced.
So watch your actions and words all the time.

"Why cry over spilt milk?"....

Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life.....

Things are to be used and people are to be loved...but the problem in  today's world is that, People are used and things are loved.
 
During this year, let's be careful to keep this thought in mind:
 
"Things are to be used, and People are to be loved."

Be yourself....This is the only Day we have.

Watch your thoughts; they become Words...
Watch your words; they become Actions...
Watch your actions; they become Habits...
Watch your habits they become Character...
Watch your character;it becomes your Destiny.

Have a nice day!

God bless you.

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